Self-Reflection

30 08, 2023

How Might I Build a Strong Mind?

2023-08-30T08:54:45+01:00

I was recently asked this question and here is my answer: The path to mastery in any field requires relentless practice. So, let’s practice: What is wrong with the mind you have? What does a “strong mind” mean to you? What does “smarter” look like in practice? Imagine you are looking [...]

How Might I Build a Strong Mind?2023-08-30T08:54:45+01:00
5 07, 2023

The Parable of the Chinese Farmer

2023-08-29T14:03:03+01:00

This is the Story of the Chinese Farmer as told by Alan Watts. It isn't clear if this was originally a Chinese parable or invented by Alan Watts to make the point that it is really impossible to tell whether anything that happens is good or bad. The question I have [...]

The Parable of the Chinese Farmer2023-08-29T14:03:03+01:00
29 04, 2023

Beautiful Questions

2023-09-05T13:55:07+01:00

Life can get busy! Busyness can then breed busyness to the point that we’re not sure why we’re doing what we’re doing or indeed who it is we have become. Very few people can fully answer these questions but the important thing is to keep asking the questions! In fact, [...]

Beautiful Questions2023-09-05T13:55:07+01:00
30 06, 2022

What Question Am I Not Asking?

2023-04-14T14:13:17+01:00

Reading time: <1 minute There are obviously an infinite number of answers to this question, which in itself is wonderful because you will likely get something different each time you ask it. Each morning I ask myself a series of questions as I visualise my day. The list does change [...]

What Question Am I Not Asking?2023-04-14T14:13:17+01:00
22 07, 2021

Are You Getting the Right Things Done?

2023-04-06T09:57:27+01:00

Reading Time: <1 minute We live in a busy world with constant interruption but a lot of the time we confuse busyness and productivity. Busyness is about getting lots done. Productivity is about getting the right things done. Working out what is right for each of [...]

Are You Getting the Right Things Done?2023-04-06T09:57:27+01:00

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What Might be Possible If We Believed It Were Possible?

Questions have a strange power. They can release us from what we believe to be true by offering us glimpses of something different. Indeed, there are times in that brief moment after a question is asked when it feels like anything is possible.

How then can be capture more such moments and infuse them into our decision-making? The science of decision-making is in truth an art we spend our lives practicing. The same goes for curiosity and innovative thinking.

We make decisions all day every day. Some echo for minutes, others for months whilst a few echo throughout our lives. How do we distinguish and decide accordingly?

That is why I am a big advocate of nurturing curiosity and innovative thinking at all ages. If you are a leader, you will no doubt already know that continually nurturing curiosity in leadership is absolutely key. In many ways, leadership begins with self-leadership, which is in turn built on a deep sense of curiosity about who you are as a person and as a leader and at its core about how you make decisions. In fact, how did you decide to read this? And, what will you decide to do next?

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What Might be Possible If We Believed It Were Possible?

Questions have a strange power. They can release us from what we believe to be true by offering us glimpses of something different. Indeed, there are times in that brief moment after a question is asked when it feels like anything is possible.

How then can be capture more such moments and infuse them into our decision-making? The science of decision-making is in truth an art we spend our lives practicing. The same goes for curiosity and innovative thinking.

We make decisions all day every day. Some echo for minutes, others for months whilst a few echo throughout our lives. How do we distinguish and decide accordingly?

That is why I am a big advocate of nurturing curiosity and innovative thinking at all ages, starting right from how we think about time. If you are a leader, you will no doubt already know that having a thinking partner with whom to continually nurture curiosity in leadership is absolutely key.

In many ways, leadership begins with self-leadership, which is in turn built on a deep sense of curiosity about who you are as a person and as a leader and at its core about how you make decisions. In fact, how did you decide to read this? And, what will you decide to do next?

Tom’s innate ability to listen and empathise enabled me to relax and really explore the issues that were causing me some anxiety. Our sessions provided me with an enhanced sense of self-awareness and a considered plan of action. The benefits in terms of relationships and self-confidence this process has given me are invaluable, in both work and life in general!
Testimonial from Sean
I went for coaching with Tom, without knowing what I wanted but knowing that I needed some help after having a number of setbacks with interviews. By the end of the first session, I was beginning to realise my problems. By the end of the second session, I was beginning to realise what I wanted. In our final two sessions, Tom helped me to identify a strategy for achieving my goals.

I thoroughly enjoyed our sessions. Tom listened without judgement, guided without being opinionated and ultimately helped me to help myself. You can’t ask more from a coach.

Testimonial from Paul

I didn’t think I had a specific need for a coach, however, having met Tom outside of our professional roles we decided to set up a coaching programme. I’m delighted we did. Tom’s approach is based on taking it slow, listening first and asking questions you won’t have thought of second. The latter always result in positive actions to take away and implement immediately. Now, I’m really looking forward to continuing our working relationship.

Testimonial from James Crothall, Account Director at AMO DIGITAL

I’ve been catching up with Tom for now, over three years. It is a moment where I’m able to create space away from the noise and the busyness of my life to really tackle whatever is top of my mind. This can be on the professional side and can be on my personal side. My conversations with Tom are really conversations we have dialogues that we have, and a walk away from these meetings with clarity around ideas of how to convey pragmatically and practically tackle some of the challenges and the issues which I wanted to discuss with Tom. But I think more importantly, with a greater degree of confidence in my ability to solve for these topics. I’ve been really enjoying my catch up with Tom I hope to continue to do so in the future and I highly recommend anybody to give it a go.

Testimonial from Tommaso
Tom’s innate ability to listen and empathise enabled me to relax and really explore the issues that were causing me some anxiety. Our sessions provided me with an enhanced sense of self-awareness and a considered plan of action. The benefits in terms of relationships and self-confidence this process has given me are invaluable, in both work and life in general!
Testimonial from Sean, Ireland
I went for coaching with Tom, without knowing what I wanted but knowing that I needed some help after having a number of setbacks with interviews. By the end of the first session, I was beginning to realise my problems. By the end of the second session, I was beginning to realise what I wanted. In our final two sessions, Tom helped me to identify a strategy for achieving my goals.

I thoroughly enjoyed our sessions. Tom listened without judgement, guided without being opinionated and ultimately helped me to help myself. You can’t ask more from a coach.

Testimonial from Paul, Ireland

I didn’t think I had a specific need for a coach, however, having met Tom outside of our professional roles we decided to set up a coaching programme. I’m delighted we did. Tom’s approach is based on taking it slow, listening first and asking questions you won’t have thought of second. The latter always result in positive actions to take away and implement immediately. Now, I’m really looking forward to continuing our working relationship.

Testimonial from James Crothall, Account Director at AMO DIGITAL

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